Beyond the new relationship – What happens when things get quieter?
New Developments to look forward to “1” It’s been a couple of years since I felt that I had successfully reengineered my relationship with my Monkey. The changes have been significant and remain effective to this day. However, the process has begun to give me more than ‘just’ a...
Why believe anything that slows you down ?
Beliefs Are A Choice! Here it starts just suppose that even this one was a choice. You could go through your life knowing that what you believe is what you believe and you can’t change it or you could stop for a moment and have a quiet think. Suppose...
Is taking ‘Control of your Monkey’ possible?
The Short answer is: Yes! we think so but, maybe control is the wrong word? We think it’s certainly worth a little contemplation and study before you write off the possibility…….. What if I told you something you...
Procrastination
Procrastination how does it happen? why do we do it ? Nobody says it better than Tim Urban As you watch it see what it tells you about your relationship with your Monkey – Its also fun to retake the survey after watching it and see if...
Towards and Away
Motivation Think about your motivation. Why do you do all the things you do? Some of the things we do make sense others aren’t so obvious. Why do some of us constantly do things that don’t give us what we want? Motivation can be a complicated subject and every...
Happy Paddock – Where we want to be?
Happy Paddock Where is it? This is the place where you are just happy. You are doing what you do when you are content. It’s different for all of us. It might be something or nothing or it might look like something or nothing with no cares, no worries...
Personal Paradigms – Your Model of the World and how things work.
Background Survival is an interesting training ground. Our capability for survival is based on two aspects: What we come as- Arguably, evolution or our core design plays its part and we arrive equipped with some things that make survival more likely. This includes our physical build, our special powers,...
Sowing seeds- options
Planting seeds Planting Seeds is like nudging a door open. You can plant them and water them and then nurture the young plants as they grow or you can just plant them and see which ones grow on their own. Each approach yields different results and different ongoing responsibilities. Planting seeds it...