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Getting the results you want
Most people we have talked with so far seem to just want their internal thought life to be different. More calm, more peace and maybe more positive; to feel their internal voices are on their side, working to help not hinder as they work towards the life they want.
We worked with a wide cross section of individuals all over the world and most were unable to succinctly state what the life they really wanted would look or feel like.
It’s not easy to working out what you really want and many of us find it difficult to say it out loud or write it down. Many of us take more time working out what car to buy than we do to work out what life we want. We explore the reasons for this elsewhere but for now it’s enough to know that it can stress us out if we feel pressured to come up with an answer when we are not ready.
And yet we can all appreciate how having measures that you can see; measures that change positively as you put in work, is a great way to help you keep putting the work in.
To help you do this easily now, we have designed the Misaligned Monkey survey. You can find out more about it and why it is the way it is elsewhere on the site. However it enables you to quickly produce a number or score that rates your current relationship with your Monkey. The number itself is not so important as the trend that the numbers show as you repeat the survey over time.
Just reading the book can change your score and the challenge is designed to do this even more effectively.
Feedback on the survey
“As I read the book, I hoped that my scores would change and yes they did. I now have a clarity and focus I never experienced before.”
‘The most critical element in sticking to any change process is seeing real results’
So even before you start any implementation we suggest you take a moment to assess the existing quality of the relationship you have with your Monkey. You can do this using our own Misaligned Monkey relationship survey which gives you a numerical score based on your own experience of your Monkey today. It’s free and you can find a link at the end of this page.
As you progress, keep an eye on how you are doing by repeating the survey regularly and keeping a note of your scores so you can see how they change. You can read more about scores and the survey here.
More than any other single factor, experiencing real concrete change as it happens, will help you stick to the programme and complete the transformation.
We also suggest you keep a journal or notes of ‘Monkey Help’ or ‘Monkey happenings’ – it’s great to look back and see how things have changed and how the nature of your Monkey’s interruptions evolve once you start working together.
The second thing that will help you is competing in a challenge.
Feedback on the challenge
“The exercises were so much easier to follow using the challenge audio recordings. I struggled to get the time to make this happen but the emails kept me on track and I completed the 12 weeks in about 14 weeks. I am chuffed with the real differences I have produced.“
Currently in development it will offer freebies, hints, tips and discounts.
If you don’t have this in place yet we are working to offer a Facebook page with buddy buddy working. It’s only just launched – so stick with it please as we work hard to encourage people to use the Facebook page and share experiences, tips and relationship scores.
The fourth thing is to do with your own expectations – this thing works if you work it!
You can listen to this recording:
It’s usually available in later stages of the challenge designed to help you with setting your own expectations and moving on to help yourself get the results you want.
Book done ?
There are three practical options to reengineer your relationship with your Monkey:
Our gold star all singing all dancing offer is The Challenge which guides your through our specially designed timetable to create real results in just 12 weeks. This is a comprehensive package involving all the audio sessions recorded specially for the challenge exercises. It includes a number of extra recordings to help you set expectations and progress smoothly through the transition to a better working relationship with your Monkey. We know you are busy so we also provide a series of gentle email reminders to keep you on track and provide you with what you need when you need it. These emails support you through the process and help you get the job done. You can also access our private Facebook challenge group.
Free Offer – If you agree to share your progress and your results with us and let us use them for research and promotion purposes, there may be some options to complete the challenge course for free -Find details here.
2. Using Our Guided Exercises
You can also purchase the guided exercises recordings for our 12 week challenge separately if you wish. Just check there is not a special offer on the challenge which gives you the full support package and a number of bonus recordings at a similar price.
The book is written so that you can follow the exercise pattern and format under your own steam. You will also find a number of posts and articles on the site to help answer questions and to help you think through the ideas and make them work for you.
However you do it please tell us how its working for you.
Please share your scores and your stories with us and help us build a useful and effective page with lots of feedback on Facebook
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